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THE SWAMP GODDESS® GUIDE TO MENOPAUSAL MAYHEM AND AGING ANGST
BLOG #98 by Wendy Kyman, Ph.D.
RE-CHOOSING MIDLIFE FRIENDS
You move to a town or city where you don't know anybody.
One of your top priorities is to meet people and make friends.
You are introduced to your current friends in the new location.
However, you're meeting and learning about them for the first time.
We re-choose our current friends again and again and again.
We re-choose some friends, but not others.
This is a case of if I knew then what I now know ...
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Fantasy do-overs are fun and enlightening.
Would you choose any of your current friends (who they are now) as friends if you
met them today?
List the ones you would choose.
What have you learned about each friend that would cause you to re-choose her?
List the ones you would not choose.
What have you learned about each friend that would cause you not to choose her?
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